@bev44 Agreed. It would be nice to be specific on what rights we allow our users to have access to instead of only two options. It would even be better to have it detailed by camera as well.
In the meantime, have you considered using a schedule for when your wife leaves to work? Through the Schedule mode you can change modes throughout the day automatically. For example, if she leaves to work at 6am, maybe you can have it change to Home mode from 5:55am-6:05am. This way she has a 10 minute window where your cameras will react differently while she gets in the car and leaves, then goes back to “sleep” mode soon afterwards. Also, if she’s not working the next morning, just select your regular sleep mode throughout the night and only use the Schedule mode when needed or until you wake up. I use the schedule mode on one of my home bases and it works well so far. Just a thought.